Welcome to the fourth article in this six-part series outlining my nonprofit board development process.
- Article 1 focused on clarifying what your organization needs from its board.
- Article 2 explored setting expectations to guide and hold members accountable.
- Article 3 talked about determining where a prospect is on the casual – connected – committed continuum, and where to find them.
Now that you’re clear about your Ideal Board Profile, your expectations, and where to look for your hot, warm, and cool prospects, the next logical step is to figure out what to do with those individuals you’re interested in recruiting and vetting.
One Coffee Meeting Isn’t a Strategy
Let’s name it: many organizations rely on a single, informal strategy to recruit board members. Too often, that strategy is something like: “the Executive Director has coffee with someone and then invites them to join the board.”
And yes – coffee can absolutely be part of a successful cultivation plan. But it shouldn’t be the only strategy. A strong recruitment process is thoughtful, varied, and relationship-based. It offers multiple opportunities for prospects to engage with your mission, your team, and your work before any invitation to serve is extended.
Depending on your mission, you may have plenty of natural on-ramps for engagement – or you may need to get creative. Either way, this phase is about intentionally deepening relationships, gathering insights, and laying the groundwork for informed board invitations.
Deepening Relationships: From Casual to Committed
Let’s break down the process of moving prospects along the continuum from casual to connected, and then to committed. This article doesn’t focus on moving people from “clueless” to “casual” – that’s really a marketing conversation. Instead, we’ll start with prospects who already have some awareness that your organization exists.
From Casual to Connected
Casual prospects might be:
- On your newsletter list
- Friends, neighbors, or vendors
- Occasional attendees at community events
- Social media followers who occasionally comment or share
Your goal with casual prospects is not to make a hard sell for board service. It’s to educate, build trust, and invite light-touch participation that draws them deeper into your mission.
Some examples:
- Invite newsletter subscribers to make a specific in-kind donation.
Example: A domestic violence shelter might host a winter coat drive.
- Host an event designed to share your work.
Example: A historic preservation foundation could offer a public presentation about upcoming renovations.
- Offer regular tours or informal gatherings.
Example: An animal shelter might hold a weekly “Yappy Hour” where guests can play with animals and meet staff.
Here’s the key: These interactions aren’t passive experiences. Staff and board members should be intentional – trained to listen for interest, ask good questions, and take note of promising prospects who align with the board’s current needs.
And importantly, these experiences should not just deepen relationships with a staff person. They should connect the individual more meaningfully with the organization as a whole. The prospect should walk away with a sense of your organization’s culture, values, and impact – something bigger than one person or one conversation.
From Connected to Committed
Connected prospects have already taken a few steps toward engagement. They might:
- Attend events or fundraisers
- Donate regularly
- Volunteer in programs or for events
- Follow your work with genuine interest
These individuals already care. Now your job is to nurture that care and explore their potential for greater involvement.
Here are some ideas:
- Invite them to coffee or lunch with the Executive Director or a board member. Not to pitch them for the board, but to learn more about them and share more about your mission.
- Ask for help with a meaningful but manageable task. People feel more committed when they can contribute their time and talents in a way that matters.
- Offer a personalized tour or an insider experience. Seeing your work up-close builds deeper connection and often sparks curiosity.
- Invite them to serve on a short-term committee or task force. Choose something that matches their skills or interests.
Each of these strategies serves two purposes:
- Deepen the relationship.
- Offer real insight into how the prospect shows up – how they think, work with others, communicate, and follow through. That information is invaluable for your vetting process.
And again, think beyond a single relationship. How can this person feel connected to the organization – not just the Executive Director or a charismatic board member? In healthy board cultures, people stay connected because they care about the mission, the impact, and the team.
Vetting: From Committed to Board Member
Once someone is clearly invested – talking about your mission in the community, showing up consistently, supporting in multiple ways – it’s time to seriously consider them for board service. But remember: not everyone who’s deeply committed should serve on your board!
After you’ve built a foundation of relationship and engagement, vetting ensures that your decision to invite someone onto the board is grounded in intention – not desperation.Vetting helps you evaluate whether a prospect is ready and right for board service at this time. It also gives your team a shared framework for making informed, unbiased decisions.
Here are five key areas to consider during vetting:
1. Alignment with the Mission
- Do they care deeply about your cause?
- Have they shown interest over time (not just in one conversation)?
- Can they speak about your work in a way that’s passionate and informed?
In-Action Example: During a one-on-one conversation, ask them to describe why they’re interested in your organization. A strong candidate will talk about their personal connection to the mission or their passion for your impact – not just board service in general.
2. Ability to Meet Board Expectations
- Have they reviewed your Board Expectations (from Article 2)?
- Do they have the time, energy, and resources to contribute meaningfully?
- Are they willing to engage in fundraising, governance, and strategic thinking?
In-Action Example: Send them your Board Expectations document ahead of time, then discuss it together. Ask how they’ve navigated similar responsibilities in the past. Listen for thoughtful questions, openness, and any signs of hesitation – especially around time, fundraising, or fiduciary duties.
3. Fit with Current Board Composition
- What perspectives, skills, or lived experiences do they bring?
- Do they help fill gaps identified in your Ideal Board Profile (Article 1)?
- Will they complement your existing team dynamics?
In-Action Example: Discuss the culture of the board and the intentional ways it is being shaped. Ask about what they look for in a team culture and how they see themselves supporting the one that has been created.
4. Leadership and Follow-Through
- Have they demonstrated follow-through in prior engagement (e.g., showing up to events, completing volunteer tasks)?
- Are they reliable, respectful, and collaborative?
In-Action Example: After a meeting, follow up with a small task or resource (e.g., “Would you mind sending a short bio I can share with the committee?” or “Let me know if you’d like to review our financials before we reconnect.”). Notice whether they follow through promptly, ask questions, or leave it hanging.
5. Red Flags or Cautions
- Are they overly critical of the organization without offering solutions?
- Do they dominate conversations or show signs of being difficult to collaborate with?
- Are there signs they’re seeking board service for prestige, not service?
When you are in need of board members, it can be difficult to consider turning someone away who is interested in serving. It feels like looking a gift horse in the mouth. Yet there is little value in filling a board slot with someone who doesn’t meet your needs, is not willing to fulfill your expectations, or who disrupts the culture of your board.
📝 Pro Tip: Consider creating a brief evaluation form or scorecard for your board development committee or leadership team to use consistently across all prospects. It doesn’t need to be rigid—but it should help ground your conversations in shared values and expectations. Here is a sample Board Prospect Vetting Worksheet to get you started.
Tracking: From Chaos to Clarity
Without a system for tracking your board prospects, you’re just relying on memory and scattered notes. A good tracking system helps you:
- Avoid losing track of promising prospects
- Prevent duplicate or premature asks
- Monitor engagement over time
- See the bigger picture of your board pipeline
At minimum, your tracking system should include:
- Name and contact info
- Where they are on the continuum: Casual, Connected, or Committed
- Engagement activities to date: Tours, events, volunteer tasks, conversations
- Notes on interests and skills
- Board readiness status: Not ready, Ready for cultivation, Ready for ask
- Assigned point person: Who’s nurturing the relationship?
You can use something as simple as a shared Google Sheet (here’s a sample), or as robust as a CRM (customer relationship management) platform. The goal is to make the invisible visible – to keep your board-building work intentional and forward-moving.
Whether you’re just getting started or looking to upgrade your system, here are a few free or low-cost platforms that can support your tracking efforts:
- Google Sheets + Google Forms – this free and simple platform is a great place to start if you are moving from having no system at all to wanting to put some structure to your tracking. Great if you are already using Google products.
- Airtable – combines spreadsheet functionality with database power. Good for small teams who want flexibility without technical support. Free for teams up to 5 users.
- HubSpot CRM – you can create different pipelines for different engagement strategies, such as casual – connected – committed. You can also assign owners, track communications, and log tasks. It’s free and can include automations or integrations with email.
- Trello – I use this system for tracking projects and relationships. It’s easy to move people along to different stages and include notes. This is free for the basic product and works great for us visual folks!
- Bloomerang Lite – is free for small nonprofits. It offers donor and volunteer tracking with engagement history and segmentation. Great for those organizations that foresee growing into needing a full fundraising CRM in the near future.
Bringing It All Together
When you combine relationship-building, vetting, and tracking, you create a thoughtful, mission-centered pipeline for board development. You stop relying on luck or last-minute recruiting and instead start building a board that is aligned, prepared, and positioned to lead your organization well.
In the fifth article in this series, we’ll explore Making the Ask & Onboarding. This will include how to formally invite someone to serve on your board and welcome them into your organization in a way that is clear, inspiring, and sets the tone for success.
Because once you’ve invested in cultivating, vetting, and tracking a prospect, the invitation should feel like the natural next step – not a leap.
Every nonprofit is different and has unique needs and challenges when it comes to finding governance volunteers. Email me at Kim@Athena-CoCo.com, or schedule a Discovery Call if you would like to discuss ways to advance your Board of Directors and the work of your agency.

Kim is a mom, lover of being active and the outdoors, and helper of nonprofit leaders.
kim@athena-coco.com







